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To enhance your dating
experience is to be observant. The first time you go to
a new setting or meet new people, hold back a bit and
spend first half hour or so just observing what's going
on. See who knows, how people behave with each other,
and where the action is. By observing people before you
meet them, you can determine who you would most like to
meet, and perhaps even
learn somethings about your choice. Remember, you're here
to learn - about other people and about yourself.
Notice the people around
you
By observing the
people in attendace at any event, you can learn a lot.
If you're in a class, watch who seems to be most
knowledgeable, who helps others, who tries to impress
the teacher. If you're at a party watch who seems to be
genuinely liked, who clowns around, who is gregarious,
who is shy.
Notice what people are wearing and anything
unuaual about them. You can use it to begin a conversation later.
What interests you about different people ?
Conversation is
available
anywhere
You don't have to be at an
organized event to practice your conversational skills.
Standing in line at the bank or supermarket, waiting at
the laundromat for your clothes to dry, or sitting at
the local coffee bar on your lunch hour are all good
opportunities to begin a conversation.
If you have been
observant, you will have plenty of ideas to talk about.
If you're in grocery store, for example, and the person
in line in front of you has charcoal, hot dogs, buns and
sodas in the cart, you can observe that it should be a
great weekend for a cookout.
Try to give a warm smile whenever you see people.
It makes a difference !
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